While many chapters are written in my voice, others are drawn from the expertise of specialists – medical guidance comes directly from doctors, the chapter on female genital mutilation is written by someone who has lived through it, and the one on ‘squirting’ is contributed by an expert in the field.
Each chapter takes a real question and responds to it in depth, with honesty and clarity, because these are not trivial doubts, they affect people’s confidence, their marriages and their ability to feel safe in their own bodies.
When people write in, what they are really seeking is someone to help them through not just the confusion and fear but also the loneliness of carrying a doubt or a question with no one to trust. This book is our at