Michael Bennett

F*ck Feelings

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  • b4695663262has quoted5 years ago
    hat F*ck Feelings can promise you is that there is no situation in life that can’t be endured if you can keep your sense of humor, bend your wishes to fit reality, restrain your feelings, manage bad behavior, and do what you think is right.
  • b4695663262has quoted5 years ago
    You can’t go forward, or be helped by treatment, until you accept its impossibility, suck it up, and turn your bullshit wish into a goal that can actually be achieved.
  • b4695663262has quoted5 years ago
    you need to accept that life is hard and your frustrated efforts are a valuable guide to identifying what you can’t change.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    So no matter what you plan to do—who you plan to seek treatment with, or if you don’t seek treatment at all—remember that there’s no such thing as “fair,” feelings are stupid, life is hard . . . and you’re going to be relatively okay, even if you won’t be happy, because your goals are realistic and your efforts to reach those goals will make you proud. Then, the next time life gives you a shit sandwich, slather that puppy in ketchup and enjoy. They’re on everyone’s menu. Even at the fine dining halls at Harvard.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    We tend to like people who make us feel good and we take pride in our ability to make quick decisions and trust our guts. Given what our guts produce, however, and what orifice that product is excreted from, we should know better.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    If you haven’t checked in with your local anti-vaxxer lately, you might’ve forgotten that people believe something is true just because they believe it strongly.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    We know why parents impose this global responsibility on themselves; it hurts to watch your kid feel like a loser and not be able to help. Nevertheless, it’s part of the parenting job description for many unlucky parents. Sometimes, no matter how much you adore your kids, your love just doesn’t get through and they don’t like themselves. So your job, though it may sound heartless, is to do your best to build them up, remember you’ve done your best, and then go do something else. Otherwise, you’ll burn out and do your kid and yourself harm, instead of surviving to help another day.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    Instead, accept what you’ve already learned: that your disability will come and go and you’ll never control it completely.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    If you try too hard to fight a battle you can’t win, you’ll be too worn-out to leave. Instead, if you know the battle is unwinnable, smile politely until you’re gone.
  • Said Sadikhovhas quoted7 years ago
    There’s a certain point—let’s call it the desperation fulcrum—at which pushing yourself to be more articulate makes you repetitive, boring, and overeager, driving people further away from your point of view.
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