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Jasmin Lee Cori

The Emotionally Absent Mother

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Was your mother too busy, too tired, or too checked-out to provide you with the nurturing you needed as a child? Men and women who were “undermothered” as children often struggle with intimate relationships, in part because of their unmet need for maternal care. The Emotionally Absent Mother will help you understand what was missing from your childhood, how this relates to your mother's own history, and how you can fill the “mother gap” by:
Examining the past with compassion for yourself and your motherFinding the child inside of you and learning to mother yourselfOpening to the archetype of the Good MotherAllowing friends and loved ones to provide support, guidance, and other elements of good mothering that you missedThrough reflections, exercises, and clear explanations, psychotherapist Jasmin Lee Cori helps adult sons and daughters heal the wounds left by mothers who failed to provide the essential ingredients that every child needs. She traces…
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  • Антипатичная Нейросетьhas quotedlast year
    A mother conveys “I see you” primarily through accurate mirroring (see Mother as Mirror, p. 31) and attuned responsiveness. She knows, for instance, what we like and what we don’t. She knows what our interests are and how we feel about things. Being seen is being known.
  • Антипатичная Нейросетьhas quotedlast year
    “I’m glad that you’re here” is an important first message for a child to hear. This message is communicated through behaviors that tell the child she is valued and wanted.
  • Антипатичная Нейросетьhas quotedlast year
    Here are ten basic Good Mother messages:
    I’m glad that you’re here.
    I see you.
    You are special to me.
    I respect you.
    I love you.
    Your needs are important to me. You can turn to me for help.
    I am here for you. I’ll make time for you.
    I’ll keep you safe.
    You can rest in me.
    I enjoy you. You brighten my heart.

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