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Esther Perel

    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    The more you become attached, the more you have to lose. So you set out to make love more secure. You seek to fix it, to make it dependable. You make your first commitments, and happily give up a little bit of freedom in exchange for a little bit of stability. You create comfort through devices—habit, ritual, pet names—that bring reassurance. But the excitement was bound to a certain measure of insecurity.
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    points out, the fantasy of permanence may trump the fantasy of passion, but both are products of our imagination.
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    She sees him as a man.
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    And I’m sorry to say that the loss is on both sides. Not only have you squeezed out the passion, but you haven’t really gained safety, either
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    the compromises that worked so well yesterday become sacrifices we no longer want to brook today.
    Ricardo Olivares Armashas quotedlast year
    Neutralizing each other’s complexity affords us a kind of manageable otherness.
    Ricardo Olivares Armashas quotedlast year
    Love and lust are inseparable parts of a larger whole for some, while for others they are irretrievably disconnected.
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    Love Seeks Closeness, but Desire Needs Distance
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    Being chosen by the one you chose is one of the glories of falling in love. It
    Vivian Salazarhas quotedlast year
    f love is an act of imagination, then intimacy is an act of fruition
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