The way you will be able to spot them is that when they talk about their husbands, they have only good things to say. That’s how you can identify a woman with a good marriage: She speaks highly of her husband.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
You chose your man because you saw a lot of good qualities in him.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
The first reason is that your husband doesn’t feel respected right now. A man needs respect like he needs oxygen, and when he’s not getting it from the woman who knows him best in the world, he’s going to respond defensively
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
When he’s not having to defend himself, he can focus on protecting you, finding ways to make you smile, bringing you presents, and telling you how beautiful you are.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
Today I choose respect regardless of whether I feel that I know better than him or not.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
not. My connection with my husband is a higher priority than needing to demonstrate that I am a smarty pants.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
As a wife, expressing your desire is always going to be more powerful than debating or disagreeing with his thinking, which is disrespectful.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
What I wanted was an intimate, passionate, peaceful partner, but instead I treated him like a child who needed constant supervision.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
Stop being helpful. Remember, “helpful” in wife language translates into “critical” in husband language.
aleksandravujcic2802has quoted2 years ago
But over time, I’ve come to appreciate that it’s actually more enjoyable to be the Goddess of Fun and Light than it is to be the woman who knows everything. When I stop trying to be helpful, I can relax and have fun with my husband again