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The issue is not about whether you are successful in turning him on; this is no big achievement. He can get aroused from riding a motorcycle or from sleeping. The issue is not whether you turn him on; it’s whether he stays turned on after he has been satisfied. This is the key.

Don’t ask for affection. Don’t coax affection out of him. Don’t give affection when he isn’t being affectionate. If he’s ignoring you, don’t try harder. “Honey, can I give you a backrub?”

Pay attention to the big picture. Does he add to your life as a whole, and do you feel good after he’s been around? (If not, “fast forward” the message and hit “delete.”)

Above all, make every concerted effort to stay focused on your life. That’s how you stay sassy in his eyes.

Unless you maintain control
over yourself, the relationship is doomed.

The bitch never tries that hard to make an impression.

The nice girl fails to take a “breather” because of her fantasy that he is “the one” or her “soul mate.” But this fantasy is a liability because it feeds a myopic view that he is the center of her life.

The bitch is not governed by fear of losing a man, because she knows the real price to pay is when she loses herself.

She develops a myopic view that what he gives is absolutely vital.
Because of this fantasy, she gives up everyday needs.
She feels more and more drained but continues to try harder, believing that he’ll be the one to make her feel fulfilled again.

The solution? Lose the fantasy