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The School of Life
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The School of Life

  • anasofiasf
    anasofiasfhas quoted2 years ago
    Once viewed as a kind of long dream that meant nothing and could be forgotten about as soon as it was over, childhood is now conceived of as a momentously consequential period in which the entire emotional disposition of a person will be formed and their chances of a mentally healthy life determined.
  • Andreea Elenahas quoted2 months ago
    Whenever more casual relationships threaten to reveal the ‘difficult’ side of our natures, we tend to blame the partner – and call it a day. As for our friends, they predictably don’t care enough about us to have any motive to probe our real selves. They only want a nice evening out. Therefore, we end up blind to the awkward sides of our natures. On our own, when we’re furious, we don’t shout, as there’s no one there to listen – and therefore we overlook the true, worrying strength of our capacity for fury. Or we work all the time without grasping, because there’s no one calling us to come for dinner, how we manically use our jobs to gain a sense of control over life – and how we might cause hell if anyone tried to stop us labouring. At night, all we’re aware of is how sweet it would be to cuddle with someone, but we have no opportunity to face up to the intimacy-avoiding side of us that would start to make us cold and strange if ever it felt we were too deeply committed to someone. One of the greatest privileges of being on one’s own is the flattering illusion that one is, in truth, really quite an easy person to live with.

    With such a poor level of understanding of our characters, no wonder we aren’t in any position to know who we should be looking out for.
  • Blagoje Mirosavljevichas quoted5 months ago
    The road to greater confidence begins with a ritual of telling oneself solemnly every morning, before heading out for the day, that one is a muttonhead, a cretin, a dumbbell and an imbecile. A few more acts of folly should, thereafter, not matter very much.
  • Andreea Elenahas quoted2 months ago
    Travels are often filled with small pleasures.
  • Andreea Elenahas quoted2 months ago
    ‘ALL OF MAN’S
    UNHAPPINESS
    COMES FROM HIS
    INABILITY TO
    STAY ALONE IN
    HIS ROOM.’
    Blaise Pascal
  • Nahda Azzahrahas quoted2 years ago
    In order to generate the momentum required to prompt us to finish any task, our mind pretends that once the work is done, it will finally be content, and will accept reality as it is.
  • Nahda Azzahrahas quoted2 years ago
    And then, with cold rigour, it will be on its way again with worries and questions. It will ask us once more to account for ourselves, to ask what the point of us is, to doubt whether we are worthy or decent, to question what right we have to be.
  • Nahda Azzahrahas quoted2 years ago
    We start to feel that no achievement will ever, in fact, be enough, that nothing we do can last or make a difference, that little is as good as it should be, that we are tainted by a basic guilt of being alive, that others around us are far more noble and able than we will ever be
  • Nahda Azzahrahas quoted2 years ago
    They will suffer, but they won’t hate themselves.
  • Nahda Azzahrahas quoted2 years ago
    We are kept alive by a brute biological appetite reliant on ignorance
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