Finally, here are a few personal observations about the compatibility of humans:
• If you think you can change other people, you are probably better off trying to push string uphill or nail Jell-O to the wall. It very seldom works.
• People we care about often reflect much of ourselves back to us. If we don’t like what we see in the mirror, it’s pointless to try and rearrange the image in the mirror. Instead, the change process most often begins with ourselves.
• If we want someone to understand us, it generally works better if we make an effort to understand them first.
• If we can keep quiet and really listen to others, we have a much better chance of understanding them.
• Strangely, if we are looking to get something, we can often accelerate the process by being a giver first.
That’s generally how it works and yes, there’s a few exceptions to each of these ideas but not as many as we often think