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Gregg Michaelsen

Text Him This Not That

  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    The easiest answer to this first text question is sort of a mainstay rule - wait three days.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    Stay light and friendly and let things take their natural course.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    What I want you to learn from them, though, is that they're light and friendly. There is no accusation, no negative emotions, just passing comments to stir his interest.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    If you follow the guidelines in this book and he doesn't chase, then you are done with him. Go to option #2 or enjoy being single until option #2 arrives!
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    Get busy, go take a class somewhere. Take a mini vacation or go away for the weekend with your friends. Do something besides beg.

    Put in as much effort into him as he is putting into you. . .or less!
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    Having hobbies, pursuing your passions and having a good circle of friends all helps you be in a constant growth phase. You're trying new things, meeting new people and not allowing your mind to go idle.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    Women and men express emotion differently, regardless of what emotion it is. Men express love by doing things or fixing things or providing things. Women express love through their words or nurturing. Sadly, they expect men to express their love through words as well.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    Rather than assume a man is just making excuses not to be with you, assume he is telling the truth. Should you find evidence later that he was lying, deal with it then. Making assumptions, based on your own insecurities, only leads you down a dark and ugly path.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    The key for you in initiating these conversations is to remain relaxed and playful. If you make an attempt and he doesn't respond in a way which allows you to continue prompting him for a date, let it go and try again another time. Other opportunities will come along, or he may even respond later with an idea based on that conversation.
  • b5840989372has quoted3 years ago
    You and I both know this was really you being in charge, but does he?

    Nope!

    He walks away thinking he planned everything and is feeling good about himself and you.
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