If your purpose is only about you, it has no branches. If it is only about the rest of the world, it has no roots. This is why learning through the wounds in our history, the moments when our essential needs were not met in some very basic ways, are moments that stand still in our memory and moments that hold possibility for you to unfurl your gifts. Wouldn't it be a good joke if the worst that has happened to you holds the possibility of bringing the best in you to the community?