You will learn a lot about yourself after having children. You will see that you are no longer the most important thing in the world anymore. You will want to make sure that you are taking the best possible care of your children that you can. You want to provide them with a good and stable home that they can feel safe and sound in. You will want to make sure that you are getting the things that they need as well as giving them a safe environment that they will be glad to grow up in.