Manipulation

People who manipulate don’t know how to deal with defeat. When you hesitate to give feedback because the person will get defensive or blow things out of proportion or won’t take things in the right spirit, it may be a sign you are dealing with someone who can’t come to terms with

Pay The Price Attached to Reach Their Goals

There is zero regards or concern for your wishes, desires, choices, and emotions. You will pay with hell if you don’t pick the choice they want you to.

ists. Also, they’ve stopped evolving. They don’t learn from earlier experiences or try to accomplish a state of congruence between inner emotions and external life.

Low or No Conscience
Lack of consciousness is another fundamental reason for manipulation. When a person fails to realize that he/she is responsible for their own reality, there is a greater tendency to operate without a conscience. Manipulators don’t believe a fair system exists.

I am undeserving or unworthy of people and things!

words, “He that has once done kindness will be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged.” Seemingly small acts like (saying a thank you or being gracious) these go a long way in forging bonds where people truly like you and listen to you.

Offering excuses and rationalizing
-Feigning ignorance
-Emotional blackmail
-Evasiveness
-Demonstrating fake concern
-Undermining people
-Blaming others and using “who me?” defenses
-Lying
-Denying
-False flattery
-Intimidation
-Giving the illusion of selflessness
-Shaming
- Using foot in the door techniques

Complaining
-Playing victim
-Inducing guilt
-Comparing

persuasion awards the other person a right to select his/her response to a particular situation, manipulation does give the victim the right to choice. Manipulation has only one way – the way your manipulator wants you to take.