Get Over It

If things are not as you would have them be in a certain area of your life—whether it’s relationships, finances, career, health, or self-satisfaction—a mental file is blocking the light from that area of your soul

It is impossible that anything should come to me unbidden by myself. Even in this world, it is I who rule my destiny. What happens is what I desire. What does not occur is what I do not want to happen.
This must I accept.

never been able to see the results of money earned or spent unless it was to take care of my family’s most basic needs—even though I desired more . . . much, much more. Iyanla

found these lines from the prayer to be very empowering:

In Your loving presence, I declare and decree I am enough, just as I am.

. . . Every thought that I am anything other than enough is now banished and disintegrated.

Every belief that I can be less than I am is now eliminated at the deepest root and cause.

Every judgment, every learning, every projection I have made about myself, or against myself, now disappears into the sea of forgetfulness, never to rise again.

I declare and decree I am enough, just as I am.

Every DNTP is the result of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that dominate our consciousness due to constant repetition

They judge themselves for what they did even when they were unaware that they were doing it. I tell them exactly what I told Mickie: it is unkind and unloving to expect yourself to know how to do something that you were never taught how to do

as a new set of lenses for examining her past experiences had led her to a breakthrough and that the Project Runway assignment

She rarely stood out or stood up for herself. That was because Mickie had no voice. Her verbally abusive father had stripped it from her

bias, which wires us to give more attention to the negative than to the positive, means feeling bad can become so familiar that it almost feels good

Further, the more we repeat positive thoughts, focusing on the productive and positive outcomes, the stronger the link will be between what we are thinking, doing, and experiencing. Who