Learning is how we figure out what we want to do, what we’re good at, how we might make a living when the time comes. That’s survival, too. Yet, especially when we’re young, we have a terrible time trying to sort out what’s important from what’s not. Life is confusing, it moves fast, we’re fielding all sorts of often conflicting messages and demands from parents, teachers, friends, and rivals. There aren’t enough hours in the day to think through what it all means.