The Law of Attraction Made Easy

Or imagine how you can interact with them in ways so that they play a strictly positive role in your life. But whatever you do, do not visualize yourself in the position you are in now—where a persistently negative friend brings you down and discourages you, and you do nothing about it. For those friends you wish to get closer to, focus on ways in which you can draw them closer. Instead of vaguely seeing how they play a role in your life, imagine how you might control the role that they play in your life, so that both you are better off for it

. How to Become Closer with Friends

Remember, too, that the LoA would suggest that you go through the same process for existing friends. Simply because you have known a person for a long time doesn’t necessarily mean they are a positive influence on your life. If you can visualize your life improving with the constant negativity of a certain friend, you may want to either encourage that friend to become more positive; or find ways to distance yourself from the friend, so that you do not find yourself becoming increasingly cynical and negative yourself

a. How to Make Friends

Instead, what you should do is focus on recovering, stabilizing, and finding ways to fill the void in your life that that person left. You might do this by taking a break from dating and setting work-related goals. Or you might focus on finding a new prospective partner to take the place of the other.

Whatever you do, it is wise to recall the lessons of the LoA as you do it. Keep positive thoughts in mind; and focus on finding a new, suitable partner, rather than grieving endlessly with the thought that you will never recover what is hopelessly lost

How to Move on After a Failed Relationship

Applying the LoA, we can see that there are good alternatives to a bitter breakup, too. For instance, instead of spending each day reinforcing the idea that it is inevitable that things will get worse; and that it is inevitable that the break up will finally happen after a big fight, we can focus instead on something else. We can focus on the relationship winding down. We can visualize how we will break from the relationship without things getting bitter and without hurting the feelings of the other person. It might sound different and unusual, but there are ways to end relationships amicably and without hard feelings; and using the LoA can be one of those ways

How to Deal with Relationships that Don’t Work

Answer these questions and incorporate them into your visualization. And once you do that, begin to consider how you will meet this person. Will you meet at work? Will you meet at a religious event? While you meet at conference that is related to your passion? Begin to fix these ideas; and then focus on your plan very carefully

. Instead of obsessing over someone you already know, but who does not care for you—or jumping into a relationship with the first available person, what you should do is visualize who it is that you wish to be with. Think about this long and hard. Visualize this person. Should this person have very similar interests to your own? Or should this person have very different interests, so that you can share your own very different passions with each other