with the idea that unless she is in the elite minority, she is not blond enough, tall enough, skinny enough, or buxom enough to win a guy’s attention. But with the right jeans, perfume, hair products, and pout, she can make herself appealing. Or when all else fails, the messages and photos she sends to a guy’s cell phone can make a statement that he cannot ignore. Speaking words of affirmation and protection into your daughter’s mind and heart should come from Dad first. Giving her a healthy dose of insight into “guy world” can ensure that she weeds out the ones who are unwilling to jump through the hoops to win her heart the way she longs for and deserves.