Total Self-control

Do you feel like you are losing control of yourself, and are you ready to take charge of your own life? By being in charge of your own life you will feel more powerful. Many times people find that they are allowing other people to take charge of their lives.

Sometimes it is easy to fall into this trap

If you find that you let other people control you just to keep the peace, then read on for helpful information to get you back on the path to total self-control. Look at some of the situations below and see if you find yourself in similar situations. When people say mean things to you or speak harshly to you. And then you just walk away and never stand up for yourself. You keep all the hurt inside, but you never let the other person know that they have hurt you. You never give your opinion about anything. You worry that if you speak your mind and tell others your opinion, they will think you are a fool or laugh at you. If someone wants to do something you don't feel like doing, you go along with it, whether you like it or not. You always need people to give you their consent or make you feel it's okay before you take any action. You seek approval. You are afraid to stand up and make a decision. You live your life by going with the flow of others. You have no structure for your own life. You are willing to follow the plan of others, but you don't have one of your own. You have many goals and dreams, but you don't dare to realize them. You find yourself saying I can't do that.