There is a process that God has for you. Sounds like an easy statement to say but harder to understand if you don't fully understand how God works out His process for your life. The best council anyone can receive is that there is no magic book, no 7-step process, or 3 easy steps to enjoying the process that God has destined for you.
You just have to experience God and learn how to enjoy the journey that He has ordained for you.
There are so many books and so many conferences (which I am not downplaying at all), but these same people have to keep writing and keep putting on conferences because they have to keep reinventing the wheel themselves. There is no re-inventing the wheel here. It's discovering your wheel, and rolling with it.