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Sam Harris

Lying

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  • Morten Kjærhas quoted3 years ago
    what have you done between the time you’re born and the time you die? Did you make the most of this unique opportunity?
  • Morten Kjærhas quoted3 years ago
    Knowing that we told the truth in the past leaves us with nothing to keep track of. We can simply be ourselves in every moment.
  • b9227174887has quoted4 years ago
    People tell lies for many reasons. They lie to avoid embarrassment, to exaggerate their accomplishments, and to disguise wrongdoing. They make promises they do not intend to keep. They conceal defects in their products or services. They mislead competitors to gain advantage. Many of us lie to our friends and family members to spare their feelings.

    Whatever our purpose in telling them, lies can be gross or subtle.
  • Nikolai C.has quoted4 years ago
    An unhappy fact about human psychology is probably at work here, which makes it hard to abolish lies once they have escaped into the world: We seem to be predisposed to remember statements as true even after they have been disconfirmed. For instance, if a rumor spreads that a famous politician once fainted during a campaign speech, and the story is later revealed to be false, some significant percentage of people will recall it as true—even if they were first exposed to it in the very context of its debunking. In psychology, this is known as the “illusory truth effect.” Familiarity breeds credence
  • Nikolai C.has quoted4 years ago
    In fact, suspicion often grows on both sides of a lie: Research indicates that liars trust those they deceive less than they otherwise might—and the more damaging their lies, the less they trust, or even like, their victims. It seems that in protecting their egos and interpreting their own behavior as justified, liars tend to deprecate the people they lie to
  • Jurij Treskowhas quoted6 years ago
    Do you view your life in terms of relationships or transactions?
  • Jurij Treskowhas quoted6 years ago
    It condenses a lack of trust and trustworthiness into a single act. It is both a failure of understanding and an unwillingness to be understood. To lie is to recoil from relationship.
  • Jurij Treskowhas quoted6 years ago
    Lying is, almost by definition, a refusal to cooperate with others
  • Jurij Treskowhas quoted6 years ago
    You simply want them to have the information you have and would want to have if you were in their shoes.
  • Jurij Treskowhas quoted6 years ago
    We can simply be ourselves in every moment.
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