Before you cross that line for whatever reason, realize the damaging effects of what your actions will cost you and those around you. This choice will spiral itself into total destruction as you lose respect of others….the emotional toil (guilt, shame, loss of self esteem) and the gut wrenching hurt it will cause. Don’t become “the bad person” by learning how to handle your unhappiness the right way. Sometimes when you go too far, you can’t go back. Choose your road wisely. This is a guide to the correct road in an unhappy marriage or a book to be shared with a friend that may be thinking of making the wrong decision.