Books
Patrick King

Mindful Listening

The key behind communication — it's not about what you say. It's how you shut up.
Empathy and listening — they sound easy, but you know that most people you meet on a daily basis can't do it. So what's the deal?
Mindful listening is the skill behind deep relationships.
This book is about a skill that isn't complex, but also not easy. It's a book about relationships and what drives them — what lets you into people's hearts. Making someone feel seen and heard and important is the highway to anyone's heart. So it's time to take a look at yourself, diagnose your issues with connection and listening, and attack new and old friendships with a more empathetic perspective.
Increase your emotional intelligence and people analyzing skills.
Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.
Listening well is like reading someone's mind. Everything is said for a reason!
-Understand the purpose of pausing and using silences to your advantage
-How your ego sabotages your listening and how to get around it
-Four types of responses to let people feel seen and heard for sure
-How to validate and normalize someone's experience and emotions
-The art of paraphrasing and the effect it has on someone's levels of trust
-Listening and thinking — you can't do two things at once, but you can act like it
-The divide between listening for your own goals, and listening to understand
134 printed pages
Original publication
2024
Publication year
2024
Publisher
PublishDrive
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Quotes

  • melissaspittel94has quoted2 months ago
    Hopefully you can see that the issue was simply that they were unprepared.
  • melissaspittel94has quoted2 months ago
    listeners do not receive the same level of praise, attention, instruction, or credibility as speakers. They should!
  • hood96816has quoted3 hours ago
    It may seem obvious, but even the most attentive and empathetic person is going to struggle to listen to you if they’re being mauled by a lion or haven’t eaten in two weeks. What might it look like to not be physically ready to listen?

    • Being too hungry, tired, grumpy, inebriated, hot, cold, uncomfortable, or ill to pay proper attention
    • Being stressed, rushed, or busy with something else
    • Being too emotionally aggravated to be fully present—e.g., overly angry, sad, or scared

    Physical preparedness may simply come down to making sure that the chair is comfortable, nobody is thirsty, and you’re not attempting a conversation at 11 p.m. when everyone is fatigued and unable to manage a full-blown discussion about something important.
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