Alena Davydovahas quoted5 years ago
When we focus on distinguishing proper from not proper sex, it’s all about which bodies are involved and what they should do to each other. When we focus instead on distinguishing enjoyable from less enjoyable sex, the emphasis is much more on how we relate to ourselves and each other, and what we might like to do. In other words, it’s more about how you do things rather than what you do. This is not to say – of course – that everybody would (or should) enjoy all of the possible sexual activities if they just did them in the right way. Rather it’s about giving us clues about how we can do the things that we prefer in the ways that will be most enjoyable.
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