don’t cry. They are ‘trouble’ and can’t be trusted to manage their sexual urges – ‘boys will be boys, after all’ – which is an incredibly dangerous message for people of all genders. Also, did you notice the boys’ gender traits (leadership, confidence, competition) are the ones most highly valued by society at present (vs. kindness, vulnerability and an understanding of relationships)?
Sex is one thing and is risky: Sex means penetrative penis-in-vagina sex, which is engaged in by men and women who are in love. Sex leads to teenage pregnancy and STIs, which gives a clear message that sex should just be avoided in the first place, as it is dangerous and/or could lead to the biggest mistake of