Fumitake Koga,Ichiro Kishimi

The Courage to Be Disliked

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  • b9212348372has quoted2 years ago
    Maybe ‘normal’ is the only choice I have. Maybe I will just have to accept my mediocre self and surrender to leading a mediocre, everyday existence. But I will fight it.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    No matter what moments you are living, or if there are people who dislike you, as long as you do not lose sight of the guiding star of ‘I contribute to others’, you will not lose your way, and you can do whatever you like. Whether you’re disliked or not, you pay it no mind and live free.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    If one is living in a such a way as to satisfy other people’s expectations, and one is entrusting one’s own life to others, that is a way of living in which one is lying to oneself, and continuing that lying to include the people around one.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    You are worried about other people looking at you. You are worried about being judged by other people. That is why you are constantly craving recognition from others.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    What another person thinks of you—if they like you or dislike you—that is that person’s task, not mine.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    When one seeks recognition from others, and concerns oneself only with how one is judged by others, in the end, one is living other people’s lives.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    If you change, those around you will change too. They will have no choice but to change.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    A lot of people think that the more friends you have the better, but I’m not so sure about that. There’s no value at all in the number of friends or acquaintances you have.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    When you are able to truly feel that ‘people are my comrades’, your way of looking at the world will change utterly. No longer will you think of the world as a perilous place, or be plagued by needless doubts; the world will appear before you as a safe and pleasant place. And your interpersonal relationship problems will decrease dramatically.
  • Novem MWhas quoted3 years ago
    The reason that so many people don’t really feel happy while they’re building up their success in the eyes of society is that they are living in competition. Because to them, the world is a perilous place that is overflowing with enemies.
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