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Want people to like you? Listen to what they say. Focus on what they say. Ask questions to make sure you understand what they say.

What motivates you? What do you want to achieve for yourself and your family? What do you value most, spiritually, emotionally, and materially? That’s what will make you happy—

What motivates you? What do you want to achieve for yourself and your family? What do you value most, spiritually, emotionally, and materially?

Happiness is a process, and processes are based on action

Expressing gratitude is so personally fulfilling, praising and recognizing other people will soon become a lifelong habit.

Nothing worth achieving comes without a price.

So don’t measure yourself against others. Pick a goal and measure yourself against that goal. That’s the only comparison that ever matters.
And don’t be intimidated. You don’t have to try to be the next Zuckerberg. You can try to be something a lot better.
You can be the next you.

Success doesn’t require a high IQ or some special intangible quality that you don’t have. Successful people only become “special” after they succeed; before they put in all the time and effort, they were just like everyone else.

Pick three things you value most. You might value pride, or sincerity, or faith, or family, or cooperation, or adventure, or camaraderie, or humility, or independence—the list is endless. Pick three.
Then determine how much of your time—and how much of your money—is spent on those values. The more time you spend fostering and honoring your values, the happier you will be.
Live your values and you can’t help but be happy and more joyful—because in those moments, you are exactly who you truly wish to be.

Why? Failure isn’t defeating; failure is motivating. Failure provides a healthy dose of perspective, makes us more tolerant and patient, and makes us realize we’re a lot like the people around us.