Did you know many Christians are going to lose salvation because of their marriages? please my dear reader sit down quietly, and reflect on yourself and your sex ! reason up with the master architect the ( unseen-God ). Do you know the Commandment (Thou shall not commit adultery)? Marriage is optional and for those who are interested and mature enough to enter into the business. It is not written anywhere in the Bible that every male or female must marry, instead of following proper procedure. This book is carefully written to share the experiences of renowned men of God in both the Old and New Testament who faltered as a results of their marriages. You will also find some definitions of marriage, including the author's. The author suggest some alternatives to marriage, such as secret and open friendships to replace the traditional courtship and Adms (annual dialogue meetings). Marriage celebrations from paper to diamond and many more are there for you. Many people have benefited from the author, who works with the Lord in counseling. Come, the door is opened as you read this book prepared to change your life.