Erich Fromm

Escape from Freedom

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  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    If every step in the direction of separation and individuation were matched by corresponding growth of the self, the development of the child would be harmonious. This does not occur, however. While the process of individuation takes place automatically, the growth of the self is hampered for a number of individual and social reasons. The lag between these two trends results in an unbearable feeling of isolation and powerlessness, and this in its turn leads to psychic mechanisms, which later on are described as mechanisms of escape.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    However, submission is not the only way of avoiding aloneness and anxiety. The other way, the only one which is productive and does not end in an insoluble conflict, is that of spontaneous relationship to man and nature, a relationship that connects the individual with the world without eliminating his individuality. This kind of relationship—the foremost expressions of which are love and productive work—are rooted in the integration and strength of the total personality and are therefore subject to the very limits that exist for the growth of the self.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    Just as a child can never return to the mother’s womb physically, so it can never reverse, psychically, the process of individuation.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    Impulses arise to give up one’s individuality, to overcome the feeling of aloneness and powerlessness by completely submerging oneself in the world outside.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    This separation from a world, which in comparison with one’s own individual existence is overwhelmingly strong and powerful, and often threatening and dangerous, creates a feeling of powerlessness and anxiety. As long as one was an integral part of that world, unaware of the possibilities and responsibilities of individual action, one did not need to be afraid of it.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    For although the differences between individuals in this respect appear to be great, every society is characterized by a certain level of individuation beyond which the normal individual cannot go.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    A few months elapse after birth before the child even recognizes another person as such and is able to react with a smile, and it is years before the child ceases to confuse itself with the universe.
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    I wish to call these ties that exist before the process of individuation has resulted in the complete emergence of an individual “primary ties.”
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    The growing process of the emergence of the individual from his original ties, a process which we may call “individuation,”
  • merushhhhas quoted4 years ago
    that man, the more he gains freedom in the sense of emerging from the original oneness with man and nature and the more he becomes an “individual,” has no choice but to unite himself with the world in the spontaneity of love and productive work or else to seek a kind of security by such ties with the world as destroy his freedom and the integrity of his individual self
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