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think about the end goalwhen you do, the struggle becomes meaningful. Stay active as long as you can, don’t let yourself get lazy.

s absolutely irrelevant what size or shape someone’s body parts are, or if something hangs a bit more, curves in a way you’re insecure about, or has any kind of "imperfection" that the other person likely won’t even notice. And yes, this applies to you as well. Honestly, during intimacy, it’s completely unnecessary to stress about whether your partner dislikes any part of your body. Be confident, take pride in your appearance, but don’t submit yourself to anyone. Feel free to ask for what you want, and be proud of every inch of yourself, but don’t cross into arrogance.

This mutual focus will ensure no real problems arise.

There are people out there who seem to thrive on pointing out the tiniest flaws in others while happily lugging around their own much larger issues.