Adele Faber

How to talk to kids

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  • realitytesthas quoted3 years ago
    But, most important, we’d always keep sight of our larger goal—the constant search for methods that affirm the dignity and humanity of both parents and children
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    Easier said than done
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    how are we to help them become separate, independent persons? By
    allowing them to do things for themselves
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    Too many questions can be experienced as an invasion of one’s private life.
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    To Encourage Autonomy
    1. Let children make choices.
    2. Show respect for a child’s struggle.
    3. Don’t ask too many questions.
    4. Don’t rush to answer questions.
    5. Encourage children to use sources outside the home.
    6. Don’t take away hope.
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    Children will talk about what they want to talk about when they want to talk about it.
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    “When there
    is conflict between us, we no longer have to mobilize our forces against each
    other and worry about who will emerge victorious and who will go down in
    defeat. Instead, we can put our energy into searching for the kinds of solutions
    that respect both our needs as individuals.”
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    was at her wits’ end.
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    character).
    3. State your expectations.
    4. Show the child how to make amends.
    5. Offer a choice.
    6. Take action.
    7. Allow the child to experience the consequences of his misbehavior.
  • Anastasia Senchenkohas quoted7 years ago
    Alternatives to Punishment
    1. Point out a way to be helpful.
    2. Express strong disapproval (without attacking
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