Men don’t know what they want until they have it. Then, they realize they want something else, and start chasing the unfulfilled desire, like a rat in a wheel. As the wheel spins faster, they change so much that stop knowing who they are, before even answering what they want. Eventually, all they want is to have a rest. And that's when they marry with the person that later they call "the one”. The irony of life is that, if men knew the answer to whom they want before starting that race, they'll probably not even be there in the first place. This said, know that is not as much about who wants to marry you, as it is about who is ready to go further into that step. Most men would state that they are quite comfortable in just staying together, and they may believe that for many years, even forever.