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Epictetus,Sharon Lebell

The Art of Living

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  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    As concerns the art of living, the material is your own life. No great thing is created suddenly. There must be time.

    Give your best and always be kind.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Most people do not understand the correct use of arguments by inference and the proper use of logical forms, so they conduct themselves in a random, overly reactive, or muddled fashion and are easily misled.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    The untrained response to robbers and thugs and to those who otherwise err is outrage and retribution. Wrongdoers need to be rightly understood to form the correct response to their behavior.

    The appropriate response to bad deeds is pity for the perpetrators, since they have adopted unsound beliefs and are deprived of the most valuable human capacity: the ability to differentiate between what’s truly good and bad for them. Their original moral intuitions have been distorted, so they have no chance at inner serenity.

    Whenever someone does something foolish, pity him rather than yield to hatred and anger as so many do.

    We are only enraged at the foolish because we make idols of those things which such people take from us.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Take care not to casually discuss matters that are of great importance to you with people who are not important to you. Your affairs will become drained of preciousness. You undercut your own purposes when you do this. This is especially dangerous when you are in the early stages of an undertaking.

    Other people feast like vultures on our ideas. They take it upon themselves to blithely interpret, judge, and twist what matters most to you, and your heart sinks. Let your ideas and plans incubate before you parade them in front of the naysayers and trivializers.

    Most people only know how to respond to an idea by pouncing on its shortfalls rather than identifying its potential merits. Practice self-containment so that your enthusiasm won’t be frittered away.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Don’t just say you have read books. Show that through them you have learned to think better, to be a more discriminating and reflective person. Books are the training weights of the mind. They are very helpful, but it would be a bad mistake to suppose that one has made progress simply by having internalized their contents.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Try, also, to be as kind to yourself as possible. Do not measure yourself against others or even against your ideal self. Human betterment is a gradual, two-steps-forward, one-step-back effort.

    Forgive others for their misdeeds over and over again. This gesture fosters inner ease.

    Forgive yourself over and over and over again. Then try to do better next time.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    One cannot pursue one’s own highest good without at the same time necessarily promoting the good of others
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Our human contract is not with the few people with whom our affairs are most immediately intertwined, nor to the prominent, rich, or well educated, but to all our human brethren.

    View yourself as a citizen of a worldwide community and act accordingly.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Goodness exists independently of our conception of it. The good is out there and it always has been out there, even before we began to exist.
  • Sylashas quoted3 years ago
    Popular perceptions, values, and ways of doing things are rarely the wisest.
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