Such a person may grow up to be a people-pleaser. Others might describe them in amazing terms, but when this person is alone with themselves, they may feel profoundly empty. What do they want? They’re not even sure. Because they have spent so much time focusing their energy and attention externally, they are completely unused to looking inside themselves. They have only practiced serving the needs of others, and they have no idea what their own needs are
This is so true I’m seeing it on me, I’m very much a people pleaser