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Patrick King

Control Your Emotions

Emotion is not the enemy. We just need to decipher them and learn tools for regulation and resilience.


We all get knocked down and face hardships, but we always have the choice to get back up or not. What will your choice be?


Learn to train your emotions and tame your reactive brain.


Control Your Emotions is the rare book that understands where you’ve been, the obstacles you’ve overcome, and what you need to make sure you are in full control of your life at all times. This is a stunningly detailed and insightful guide into our emotions, our triggers, and why we act against our own interests so frequently.
The key to our emotions is NOT to just “think calm and meditate” or “be mindful and grateful.” This book avoids unhelpful platitudes and gives you real advice, borrowing from all fields, such as psychology, counseling, behavior science, evolutionary biology, and even Buddhism and Stoicism. This book gives you the tools for emotional success and the daily happiness and calm you seek.


Don’t let your emotions dictate your decisions and life.


Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.


Discover your inner strength and calm.


•Understand the biological and psychological purposes of emotions.
Find what triggers your deepest and strongest emotions.
•Learn how to properly express yourself for greater understanding.
Tools to recognize and regulate in the heat of the moment.
•The power of gratitude, savoring, and journaling.
How to activate your “emotional immune system.”
140 printed pages
Original publication
2019
Publication year
2019
Publisher
PublishDrive
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    Chapter 5. The Emotional Immune System
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    Any time you think “I can’t,” immediately say, “But actually, I can.” When you think “it’s too difficult,” immediately say, “But actually, it’s not.” When you think “I’m so frustrated,” follow it up with, “But I’m fine now.” If these become an automatic reaction to negative self-talk, then you will be able to mentally convince yourself of the positive thoughts instead of dwelling on the negative ones.
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    negative phrases may not even mean much to you, but their effect can be subtly profound. A common phrase is saying to yourself, “I can’t.” This is something that you may not even notice after a while, but every time you tell yourself you can’t do something, it negates the possibility of even trying. Another phrase is “it’s too difficult.” For our purposes, healthier self-talk consists of avoiding phrases like “I’m so frustrated” and other negative emotions. These phrases can cause a mental block that will prevent you from being successful at a task simply because your mind has already decided that you’ve failed. When you say it, you live up to it for better or worse.

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