Mindful Listening

Hopefully you can see that the issue was simply that they were unprepared.

listeners do not receive the same level of praise, attention, instruction, or credibility as speakers. They should!

don’t focus on the factual details—these are not relevant. Don’t be the “well, actually” person.

Summarize or paraphrase key points to show understanding and strengthen the connection with the speaker.

Utilize affirmative body language—position toward the speaker, nod, and vocalize agreement.

Cease other activities, maintain eye contact, and nod affirmatively.

When to Use: Use appreciative listening when the primary goal is to derive enjoyment or inspiration from the communication.

Appreciative listening is when the listener focuses on deriving enjoyment from what is being communicated.

Listening for Enjoyment

As your skills improve, however, you will see that there are probably far more shades and nuances in the way you can listen.