Your imperfect spouse but worthy

Most of the time, our lifestyles in our marital journey change along the way due to the curses this world holds and other misfortunes. These curses contribute to couples willing to divorce, and their decisions to divorce normally lead to other consequences that no man or woman must experience. But I have observed that other couples also are excelling in their marriages irrespective of what they are going through or the imperf person they are married to. This observation made me understand that couples who are excelling in their imperfect marriages have one thing in common that those who are divorcing anyhow do not have, which is they see worthiness in their imperfect spouses. No one is that perfect, and until one sees his fellow worthy yet imperfect, then he or she can learn to stay together for life with that person. People who divorce normally want to see some level of perfection in their spouses, which no one has. Divorce will surely hit your door if this mindset is in you.

Every woman wants a perfect husband or Mr. Right, likewise, every man wants a perfect wife. But the question here is, is there ever a perfect partner as we think since most of us are coming from the seed of corruption? Many couples are divorcing because they do not know the benefits their imperfect spouse can give them.

This book will open your eyes to how to view your spouse in the right manner that will help you not to damage your home and marriage.

Knowing how to handle your imperfect spouse promptly will help you to be more patient as a husband or wife. All that this book needs from you is to take it practically as you read through. This book will throw more light on the practical solutions to the shortcomings of your partner. The concept of having a perfect spouse or marriage has been an ancient deception for a long simply because the world itself is not that perfect and with all that in it. How can the top of a thing (marriage) be perfect if the root (sin) thereof is not that perfect?

Why do we even want to marry perfect spouses when we are not all that perfect to God’s standard, to mankind, and to our neighbors? Don’t we cheat sometimes, kill sometimes, steal sometimes, and even tell lies sometimes? Why do we want to marry spouses who do not do all that we do both in secret and in the open?

Some spouses even watch other couples from afar and they say they are having wonderful marriages while they do not know what they are going through as far as they are also human beings like you. Please, note that imperfections are with all of us. And what you will do with yours is what will make you a special or different couple.

Having the heart of perfection will only lead you to divorce one day. I married an imperfect wife and I must maintain her for life. That is my call of duty.

Relax and enjoy this book, consider yourself, your marriage, your spouse and your children, and all that comes with it to keep your marriage by taking away the mindset of being in a marriage with a perfect husband or wife.