Unfu*k Yourself: Get out of your head and into your life

“Stop doing all that shit you know you shouldn’t be doing and start doing all the shit you know you should be doing.”

The latest in neuroscience and psychology adds weight to the idea that the kind of talk you engage in has a profound impact on the quality of your life.

“If human emotions largely result from thinking, then one may appreciably control one’s feelings by controlling one’s thoughts – or by changing the internalized sentences, or self-talk, with which one largely created the feeling in the first place.”

He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has

two steps, stopping and starting, are naturally linked

The only thing you will regret is not trying. Not striving. Not pushing through when the going got tough.

Love the life you have, not the one you expected to have.

Be free to love them the way they are and be loved the way that they love you. Free yourself from the burden and melodrama of expectation, let the chips fall where they may.

If there’s something you want, how about asking for it with no expectation? And when you do something positive or generous, do it because you genuinely want to rather than loading in the added weight of what you expect in return.

You’re making progress. With each exercise, each step, each movement, each action, you get a little better, a little closer.