Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving

SEX IN THE AGE OF DARKNESS

Let us try now to cast light on some of the problems we children of the Dark Age are facing. We’ll begin with the mixed messages we received about sex from childhood on. Most boys, for example, notice at a very young age how good sex feels through masturbation, and most are told in no uncertain terms not to do it. Most religions attempt to regulate sex with laws telling us how and when it may be practiced, and with dire penalties for those who disobey these laws. Our bodies make no moral judgment on sex, b

serts one or two fingers into her yoni and contacts her sacred spot, which he stimulates with a gentle stroking massage or pulsing motion. The lingam is still inside, also receiving the stimulating touch of his own two fingers. In this yin, negatively charged state, the man is able to absorb a quantity of his beloved’s potent energy.

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This technique can be used in lovemaking whenever the man is on top of the woman with his lingam semierect or soft inside her. Without withdrawing, the man lifts his beloved’s legs onto his shoulders, and he comes onto his knees. Depending on how soft he is and how

overstimulate and thereby short-circuit the buildup of her sexual energy. He should alternate light movement with stillness at each of the three points of pleasure (contacting the anus and the clitoris with a light touch but no movement, while moving his pelvis, for example).
This ritual technique is based on the tantric system that recognizes positively and negatively charged energies (yang and yin energies) at vari

front wall of the vagina. Now he reaches down and contacts her anus with his index finger. Pressure against or into the anus can provide a pleasurable contact with the sacred spot from a different angle than the lingam. The tip of his middle finger, meanwhile, presses lightly up against the clitoris. Movement should be minimal, as the woman is receiving a simultaneous energetic charge to three erogenous zones; the man must be careful not to

Contacting Three Points of Pleasure
In this combination, the woman takes the superior position, kneeling above her lover with her chest close to his. The lover’s lingam penetrates deep inside and makes contact with the woman’s sacred spot by its pressure against the upper

rubbing its head over the outside of the yoni, across the perineum to the anus, and especially over and around the clitoris. This is a particularly good method to use if the lingam is not fully erect; the stimulation and contact with the beloved’s yoni will usually inspire an erection pretty quickly, but a soft or semisoft lingam can also provide a woman great orgasmic pleasure. Additional lubricant may be necessary in this technique to

Holding the Wand
In this technique, either partner grasps the lingam with the fingers or hand and manipulates it as if it were a wand,

The moral of this story is: If you practice breathing exercises to strengthen your lungs and improve lung capacity, you’ll have much longer orgasms, because you will be able to make longer inhalations and exhalations.