You Do You: How to Be Who You Are and Use What You've Got to Get What You Want (A No Fucks Given Guide)

Life gets exponentially better once you stop giving a fuck about what other people think and start doing what you really want to do.

What makes you happy? What tickles your pickle?

When you’re faced with real-life decisions that impact your real-life happiness, do you plot your own course, design your own character, and play to your strengths? Or do you go with the computer-assigned role?

Do you feel comfortable, safe, and confident in your choices? Or are you just hoping to squeak by in the middle of the pack without getting run off the road by an anthropomorphic turtle?

Oh, and one more thing. I am nothing if not consistent

Maybe you’re a born contrarian. Maybe you’re a savant. Maybe you mixed plaids with stripes one day and de

Life gets exponentially better once you stop giving a fuck about what other people think and start doing what you really want to do.

The biggest obstacle to doing you is doing things just because that’s how everyone else does them, or because it’s the way those things have always been done.

then spend so much time feeling bad about ourselves that we become convinced there is something wrong with us, and we flock to bookstores and seminars and gyms and weight loss cults and etiquette experts and plastic surgeons looking for the solutions to “problems” we don’t even have.

accepting your strengths and your flaws

The biggest obstacle to doing you is doing things just because that’s how everyone else does them, or because it’s the way those things have always been done