The first step in this process is to write down all of the things that cause you fear, worry, or anxiety, whether these feelings are warranted or not. You can keep these thoughts in a journal or record them in a "thought log." Either way, try to describe the situations that you experience and the thoughts and feelings that result. Practice reflecting on and writing down your thoughts as they occur. Make sure you include examples of self-doubt and negative self-talk. Examples of negative thoughts might be: