Our guy must become happy first, then he will feel loved, get lots of sex, feel cool and get to drive a flashy car!
Mark Onghas quoted7 years ago
It sounds backwards, but it's not. Focus on the end emotion and everything else effortlessly falls into place, much much faster (and infinitely more satisfying) than focusing on the original goal
Mark Onghas quoted7 years ago
What you truly desire is the feeling that you think having that Aston Martin will give you. When you actually get the car it's very unlikely that you'll get the feeling that you wanted. The trouble is that very few people recognise that they want the feeling, not the car.
Mark Onghas quoted7 years ago
Everything you could ever possibly desire in life comes down to feelings. EVERYTHING. There is nothing that exists that you could want for any reason other than the feeling that you believe it will give you when you have it.
Mark Onghas quoted7 years ago
When you detach from needing something and feel happy regardless, while sitting in the emotion that fuels the attraction of that very thing to you, you become incredibly magnetic to it. It seems paradoxical but in reality it's immensely powerful.