In Kristal’s case, the friend had good boundaries, but what she asked, although not inappropriate, triggered in Kristal feelings of being a burden on her mother, and she had a strong reaction that lasted for several days.
staselhas quoted2 years ago
The message I got from Mom is that she will love me if I do what she thinks I should do. So I try to be me, but I don’t know who I am
staselhas quoted2 years ago
This means that the daughter will feel the collapse when something reminds her of early childhood wounds. At this moment, a daughter is most tempted to reach out for external validation and ask someone else to make it better for her, and she may act needy