Sarah Whitely was shy from birth. She was always comfortable keeping things private. She grew up in Long Island and went to college in Brooklyn. She never left home while her siblings fled the nest as soon as they could. Her parents and other family members encouraged her to use her hobby, writing as a way to express everything she had bottled up inside. Imagine their surprise when they actually saw what she was writing about. They encouraged and she went on to hone her skills at her craft. She explores unique sexual situations among her characters. She encourages the reader to get over the stigma that has been placed on certain things and to embrace the characters and see how they fill their needs.