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Anna Lembke

  • Sanzhar Surshanovhas quoted2 years ago
    The relentless pursuit of pleasure (and avoidance of pain) leads to pain.
    Recovery begins with abstinence.
    Abstinence resets the brain’s reward pathway and with it our capacity to take joy in simpler pleasures.
    Self-binding creates literal and metacognitive space between desire and consumption, a modern necessity in our dopamine-overloaded world.
    Medications can restore homeostasis, but consider what we lose by medicating away our pain.
    Pressing on the pain side resets our balance to the side of pleasure.
    Beware of getting addicted to pain.
    Radical honesty promotes awareness, enhances intimacy, and fosters a plenty mindset.
    Prosocial shame affirms that we belong to the human tribe.
    Instead of running away from the world, we can find escape by immersing ourselves in it.
  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    What does it feel like,” I asked, “immersing yourself in cold water?” I have an aversion to cold water myself, and couldn’t tolerate those temperatures for even a few seconds.
    “For the first five to ten seconds, my body is screaming: Stop, you’re killing yourself. It’s that painful.”
    “I can imagine.”
    “But I tell myself it’s time limited, and it’s worth it. After the initial shock, my skin goes numb. Right after I get out, I feel high. It’s exactly like a drug . . . like how I remember ecstasy or recreational Vicodin. Incredible. I feel great for hours.”

    Cold exposure is super important and amazing thing

  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    Exercise increases many of the neurotransmitters involved in positive mood regulation: dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, epinephrine, endocannabinoids, and endogenous opioid peptides (endorphins). Exercise contributes to the birth of new neurons and supporting glial cells. Exercise even reduces the likelihood of using and getting addicted to drugs.

    Exercise is super important

  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    Exercise has a more profound and sustained positive effect on mood, anxiety, cognition, energy, and sleep than any pill I can prescribe.
  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    contrast, blue-collar jobs are increasingly mechanized and divorced from the meaning of the work itself. Working under the employ of distant beneficiaries, there’s limited autonomy, modest financial gain, and little sense of common mission. Piecemeal assembly-line work fragments the sense of accomplishment and minimizes contact with the end-product consumer, both of which are central to internal motivation. The result is a “work-hard/play-hard” mentality in which compulsive overconsumption becomes the reward at the end of a day of drudgery.

    That’s what is happening with me - I work hard and want to play hard and over consume after that. Isn’t it better to get stressed less? Work more smart? Limit myself with work?

  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    This kind of single-minded focus, although heavily rewarded in modern rich nations, can be a trap when it keeps us from the intimate connections with friends and family in the rest of our lives.
  • b0415763725has quotedlast year
    Oxytocin, a hormone much involved with falling in love, mother-child bonding, and lifetime pair bonding of sexual mates, binds to receptors on the dopamine-secreting neurons in the brain’s reward pathway and enhances the firing of the reward-circuit tract. In other words, oxytocin leads to an increase in brain dopamine, a recent finding by Stanford neuroscientists Lin Hung, Rob Malenka, and their colleagues.
    After his honest disclosure to his wife, followed by her expression of warmth and empathy, Jacob probably experienced a spike in oxytocin and dopamine in his reward pathway, encouraging him to do it again.

    This is why being honest and present helps to deal with addiction

  • Evgeny Domnikovhas quoted2 years ago
    The more dopamine in the brain’s reward pathway, the more addictive the experience
  • Evgeny Domnikovhas quoted2 years ago
    brain processes pleasure and pain in the same place
  • Evgeny Domnikovhas quoted2 years ago
    The reason we’re all so miserable may be because we’re working so hard to avoid being miserable
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