Mike Bechtle

But that’s because she’s looking at my vertical perspective through her horizontal perspective.

I’ll ask for help, but it’s not my first inclination. I have a basic desire to be competent on my own, and that’s how it plays out.

Kevin Leman’s The Birth Order Book describes the unique characteristics of a firstborn child versus a lastborn child. He charts a clear path for parents to understand why the firstborn has to have everything in exact order and why the lastborn wants to have a party.