those who are not aware of it, it is vital to understand that there are cultures of people whose entire approach to life is totally self-destructive, these are people who view every aspect of life as destructive and every activity that they engage in becomes an absolute and complete disaster as a direct result of what are invariably normal reflex actions.
This is exactly the reason why people from constructive environments refer to sex as making love while people from totally self-destructive and dysfunctional cultures refer to sex with destructive terms such as fucking, slamming, banging, drilling, beating it up, tearing it up and busting it wide open just to name a few terms that are commonly used.