“I’m sorry that I’ve held on. I’m sorry if my issues with being Asian have affected you. I never want to be the type of parent that makes you feel like you’re not good enough or that holds you back in any way. That was never my intention, Molly. I promise you. I want you to make your own decisions and do what you want and date who you want and have a life that’s your own and not just ours, but… I’m still your mom and I’m going to tell you when you’re wrong