Elizabeth J.Sabet

This action strengthens the negative. When we project mixed signals we get mixed results and do not usually get our needs fully met. The negative ego then uses the mixed results to justify being resentful, angry, or offended; even worse, it justifies the suffering caused by not getting its needs met, creating resentments that we can harbor for years, even lifetimes.

It’s plain and simple: either you are committed, or you are holding reservations. It is so important to be radically honest and to admit all your reservations to yourself and others who are invested in your endeavor. By allowing your reservations or concerns to be voiced, you will find hidden jewels of information.

Commitment means you are willing to do what it takes to reach your goal, to be the person you want to be, to live the life you say you want. Y

Do you really want what you say you want? And if you do, what part of your self is sabotaging you, and what is that part hoping to get away with? What part of reality is it trying to avoid?

Avoidance also expresses itself when you don’t make the necessary changes in your life that would help you solve your problems and improve your relationships.

When you tell someone that you want to solve a problem, but really don’t care what they think or feel and just want to push your agenda, your thoughts are not in alignment with your words and this sends mixed signals to others.

he ego likes to hold anything back that allows it the right to be angry, the right to be offended, the right to suffer, and/or the right to give up. A subconscious desire to suffer allows people the right to isolate themselves from the very people and situations for which God would have them be a vehicle of love and healing.

Avoidance usually expresses from the inability or lack of desire to communicate what you are feeling.

when the student is ready, the teacher shows up.