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Maggie Nelson

  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    “So, have you been with other women, before Harry?” I was taken aback. Undeterred, she went on: “Straight ladies have always been hot for Harry.” Was Harry a woman? Was I a straight lady? What did past relationships I’d had with “other women” have in common with this one? Why did I have to think about other “straight ladies” who were hot for my Harry?
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    There are people out there who get annoyed at the story that Djuna Barnes, rather than identify as a lesbian, preferred to say that she “just loved Thelma.” Gertrude Stein reputedly made similar claims, albeit not in those exact terms, about Alice. I get why it’s politically maddening, but I’ve also always thought it a little romantic—the romance of letting an individual experience of desire take precedence over a categorical one.
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    When my whole point was that the very formation of subjects, the very formation of persons, presupposes gender in a certain way—that gender is not to be chosen and that “performativity” is not radical choice and it’s not voluntarism…. Performativity has to do with repetition, very often with the repetition of oppressive and painful gender norms to force them to resignify. This is not freedom, but a question of how to work the trap that one is inevitably in.
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    If a man who thinks he is a king is mad, a king who thinks he is a king is no less so.
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    During our first forays out as a couple, I blushed a lot, felt dizzy with my luck, unable to contain the nearly exploding fact that I’ve so obviously gotten everything I’d ever wanted, everything there was to get. Handsome, brilliant, quick-witted, articulate, forceful, you. We spent hours and hours on the red couch, giggling, The happiness police are going to come and arrest us if we go on this way. Arrest us for our luck.
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    “Was I really fighting the spread of radiation, racism, woman-slaughter, chemical invasion of our food, pollution of our environment, the abuse and psychic destruction of our young, merely to avoid dealing with my first and greatest responsibility—to be happy?” Lorde writes
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    We talked as we had never talked before, an outpouring
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    The freedom to be happy restricts human freedom if you are not free to be not happy.
  • Sasha Midlhas quoted2 years ago
    Sometimes one has to know something many times over. Sometimes one forgets, and then remembers. And then forgets, and then remembers. And then forgets again.
    As with knowledge, so too, with presence
  • l'acephalehas quoted2 years ago
    I want the you no one else can see, the you so close the third person never need apply
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