These admonitions seem to be inherently decent and incontestable; but they do not take account of the deeply altered state of affairs at work for men and women: they do not allow for the truth that all places of work which include men and women in roughly equal numbers are hectic cockpits of sexual interest, flirtation, intrigue and scheming, in which women are just as likely as men to make advances and, if they are spurned, to be spiteful in revenge.