Leil Lowndes

I discovered the people perceived to have the most credibility and integrity were just ever so slower to smile. Then, when they did, their smiles seemed to seep into every crevice of their faces and envelop them like a slow flood. Thus I call the following technique The Flooding Smile.

The flooding smile

Don’t flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary. Instead, look at the other person’s face for a second. Pause. Soak in their persona. Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes. It will engulf the recipient like a warm wave. The split-second delay convinces people your flooding smile is genuine and only for them.

Thus the moment someone looks at you, he or she experiences a massive hit, the impact of which lays the groundwork for the entire relationship.

The way you look and the way you move is more than 80 per cent of someone’s first impression of you.

Just give ’em great posture, a heads-up look, a confident smile, and a direct gaze.’

slower smile gave her personality a richer, deeper, more sincere cachet.

Don’t flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary.

Pause. Soak in their persona. Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes.

Your eyes are personal grenades that have the power to detonate people’s emotions.

Big Winners know exaggerated eye contact can be extremely advantageous, especially between the sexes. In business, even when romance is not in the picture, strong eye contact packs a powerful wallop between men and women.